40 Deep Questions to Ask Your Husband

Think you know everything about your spouse or partner already? Well, we’ve curated a list of deep and meaningful questions to ask your husband and see how well you know him. 

If you want to take it a step further, give your husband a Remento book to capture his stories and turn them into a memory book. 

Here are our top picks for:

• Questions about Him: Describe the most beautiful place you’ve ever been to
• Questions on Careers: How did your career plans play out?
• Questions on Life: What was the happiest moment of your life?
• Questions on Love: How has love transformed you?

Questions About Him

1. What makes you get up in the morning?
2. What brings you the greatest happiness?
3. What are you passionate about?
4. What would be your perfect day?
5. What are the most important lessons you've learned about home?
6. What was your greatest achievement?
7. What was the lowest moment of your life?
8. What was the biggest lesson you learned?
9. How do you define your own ethnicity?
10. Describe the most beautiful place you’ve ever been to.
11. What are your life goals?
12. What is the most important lesson you've learned about yourself?
13. Tell the story of the best year of your life.
14. Tell the story of the worst year of your life.
15. How important is it to have a purpose?
16. What gives your life meaning?

Questions About His Career

17. How did your career plans play out?
18. Was your career a life's calling or just a way to make money?
19. How do you clear your mind after a bad day?
20. How do you balance life and work?
21. Talk about a time someone helped you with your career.
22. Talk about a major milestone in your career.
23. Talk about a moment you made a major change in your career.
24. How important was career success to you?
25. Talk about your biggest career failure and what you learned from it.

Questions About Life & Fatherhood

26. If you could tell your younger self something, what would it be?
27. What person influenced your life the most?
28. What was the happiest moment of your life?
29. Which parts of traditional adulthood have you rejected?
30. Talk about a moment you felt more like a parent than your parents.
31. What are the best things about having kids?
32. What are the worst things about having kids?
33. What’s surprised you the most about your children as they’ve grown?
34. What do you hope your children DON’T learn or inherit from you?
35. What do you hope your children DO learn or inherit from you?
36. How has being a parent compared to your expectations?

Questions About Love

37. How has love transformed you?
38. How do you know when you have found the one?
39. How has your sexuality changed over the years?
40. How have your views on love and marriage changed as you've gotten older?