April 2024

48 Questions to Ask Your Wife

Uncover the depths of your relationship by exploring thought-provoking questions that reveal your wife’s values, experiences, and the lessons motherhood has taught her.

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Think you know everything about your spouse or partner already? We’ve curated a list of deep and meaningful questions to ask your wife and see how well you know her. 

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Here are our top picks for:

  • Question About Her: What are three things you can't live without?
  • Question on Love: How has your sexuality changed over the years?
  • Question on Her Viewpoint: Do you think you were put on Earth for a reason?
  • Question on Motherhood: What did your children teach you?

Questions About Her

  1. What are the most important lessons you've learned about home?
  2. Which period of your life was your favorite?
  3. Talk about any big changes you made.
  4. What was your greatest achievement?
  5. When did you discover who you are?
  6. What are you passionate about?
  7. How have the people in your life surprised you as you’ve gotten older?
  8. Talk about your personal values.
  9. What would be your perfect day?
  10. What do you daydream about?
  11. What's the most interesting thing that's ever happened to you?
  12. Talk about someone you love that you used to hate, or vice-versa.
  13. Talk about how it felt when your kids left home for the first time.
  14. What are three things you can't live without?
  15. What makes you get up in the morning?
  16. Introduce yourself to a new boss.
  17. What do you like most about who you are?
  18. What brings you the greatest happiness?

Questions About Love

  1. How do you know when you have found the one?
  2. How do you define love?
  3. Tell the story of your worst broken heart
  4. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  5. How has your sexuality changed over the years?
  6. How have your views on love and marriage changed as you've gotten older?

Questions About Her Views

  1. What does freedom mean to you?
  2. If you could change one thing about the world what would it be?
  3. Who do you admire that is of a different race, gender or nationality?
  4. What’s the best way to achieve world peace?
  5. What gives your life meaning?
  6. How does who you are now compare with who you wanted to be?
  7. Do you think you were put on Earth for a reason?
  8. Talk about a time when you felt like a failure
  9. Talk about a time you strayed from your life's purpose
  10. When you look back, how much sense does your life make?
  11. Talk about things you still feel you need to accomplish
  12. What do you think happens after we die?

Questions About Motherhood

  1. What surprised you about yourself when you had children?
  2. What was your proudest moment as a mom so far?
  3. Talk about one thing you would change about how you raised your children.
  4. What is the most important lesson you've learned from having children?
  5. What did your children teach you?
  6. How did becoming a mother challenge you?
  7. What is the funniest story you have about being a mother?
  8. If you could change one thing about being a mother what would it be?
  9. Do you think you are a good mother?
  10. Talk about how your career affected your role as a mother.
  11. What is the essence of motherhood?
  12. If you had one thing to say to your children what would it be?
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